After finding out that your partner has been cheating on you, the question most people ask is: “Should You Move On If Your Partner Cheats?” To be honest, it is a little hard to answer since every situation is different and feelings can’t be shut off like a light switch. Let’s admit it, even if our partner did us wrong, we still love or care for them and that factor would be the one making it hard for us to move on. We know that we deserve better. We know that cheating is wrong. What can you really do if you find yourself in this situation?
If you are in a marriage or there are kids involved, it would be hard to just pack your bags and move out. You have to think about a lot of things like how your children will feel or react to it.
The first thing you should do would be to take some time to think things through. If you are sure that he is cheating, then you need to think about what to do next. Did you partner ask for your forgiveness and another chance? Or did he say that he wants a divorce? Was he sorry and regretful when you caught him?
You can go on a trip or sleep at a friend’s house for a while. This will help you clear your mind and figure out what your reaction would be. You will be angry and hurt which could somehow cloud your rational thought. It would be best for your to remember that if he is exclusively cheating on only one mistress, and he sees her frequently, buys her things, and even does romantic things with her, it could mean that he is in love with her. However, if he cheats on multiple women without keeping in touch with them, then there’s a chance that your relationship can be saved.
Once you have calmed down, it may be time to talk to him again. It would be hard to be rational if you are still emotional, so make sure that when you do talk to him, you are calmer and you are open to whatever can happen to the relationship. You need to be honest with each other about what you want to do with the relationship. If you both want to save it, then that’s great, but if one of you doesn’t, then you may have a problem.
Most couples would try to work it out, unless the one party is really fed up with it and doesn’t want to deal with it anymore. If you choose to work it out, then you must understand that it will be hard. Trust is something that is very hard to mend but there are couples who have worked it out. Once you decide to forgive your partner, make sure that you are really sincerely forgiving them. However, the cheating partner must also put in effort to prove that he or she has really changed and is no longer hiding anything in the sides. You must also take a look at the character of your partner. Would he cheat on you? Was it a one time thing?
My answer to whether you should move on once your partner cheats or not would be to talk it out and settle on a mutual decision on what to do. If you are the partner who cheated and you want a second chance, understand that it will be a hard road and you will dealing with a lot of stress. Giving back trust isn’t easy. You will have to earn it so be patient. And to the partner who was cheated on, forgive your partner, but also be watchful if he or she is acting shady again. You don’t want to be fooled twice or thrice.
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